If you are asking yourself the question, “will I ever find love?”chances are it’s you who is doing the resisting and blocking love from coming into your life. You are not alone; everyone has resistance to something in their lives. Usually, it’s the thing we want the most that get’s blocked from coming to us by our doubts and fears.
Carl Jung first said, “What you resist persist”. To resist means to oppose or push against, so when you put your focus on struggling against an unwanted situation or the belief that you have difficulty in relationships – that’s resistance to the natural flow of love into your life.
What you are effectively saying and therefore, vibrating to the Universe is, “It’s difficult for me to find love” and so the universe supports your belief and sets up experiences and bad relationships to make that your experience.
When Will I find True Love?
So, we tend to make ourselves feel better by measuring ourselves against others who have the life or love relationship that we so desire.
You may find yourself saying something like “Well, if she can find love, so can I. She’s not any prettier, not any smarter; her personality is….well, who wants someone who laughs all the time anyway.” And then we feel just a little bit better.
If you are resisting love you may not even realize it – most people don’t. All resistance stems from one emotion and that emotion is fear. Did you know that fear is actually an acronym? False Events Appearing Real = FEAR.
Fear is the basis for all your self-doubts and negative beliefs that you can’t find love. Fear is preventing you from having the love relationship you’ve always wanted.
Now you may say to yourself, “I’m not afraid of love – I just can’t find it.” But, you see you can’t find it because you are resisting it. You are the one who is blocking love with fears and negative beliefs that are so deeply embedded in your subconscious, you aren’t even aware that they are there.
Our conscious and subconscious minds are like an iceberg. Only the small tip (our conscious mind) shows above the water, but the larger part of the iceberg (our subconscious mind) is below the surface and our subconscious mind is really running the show.
Common Fears About Love
If you are still asking yourself, “why can’t I find love” or If you still think you aren’t afraid of love, do you ever feel that:
- I’m too old for someone to be interested in me
- I like my life and I don’t want to change for someone else
- I like sitting at home on Saturday nights with my cat
- All the good mean are already taken
- I’m too busy with my career
- He’ll end up cheating on me like all the others anyway
- I always end up with the wrong guy anyway
- I feel like there’s not really anybody out there for me
I could go on, but can you see that these feelings (excuses) are all based on FEAR and they are causing your resistance to love. And when you say, “I feel….”, you are really saying, “I believe….”. And your beliefs create your experiences.
You should be asking yourself where are all these fears coming from? How did they get into my subconscious? And more importantly how can I remove these fears, so I can eliminate the blocks and resistance I have to love?
Using Hypnosis To Remove Subconscious Blocks and Fears
Accessing your subconscious takes someone with training. Hypnosis is the quickest way to change your subconscious mind and eliminate those blocks and limiting beliefs that have you trapped in a life without Love.
So, in answer to your question, “will I ever find love?” the answer is an irrevocable YES, if you learn how to get out of the way; or you can continue to struggle in a life without love.
Let me help you take action and resolve to remove the fears and blocks you have to love. Even if your fears are justified, they still need to be dealt with and removed so you can be free to love.
About The Author
JuLee Hawkfeather, DD, CH, is a renowned Psychic Medium, Clinical Hypnotherapist and Love Relationship Expert. She has helped hundreds of women and men remove the fears and limiting beliefs that block healthy, loving relationships. Isn’t it time to call in your soul mate?